{"id":43542,"date":"2020-04-13T08:17:43","date_gmt":"2020-04-13T08:17:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/websitedesigns.com.au\/elankanew\/?p=43542"},"modified":"2021-12-19T09:23:25","modified_gmt":"2021-12-19T09:23:25","slug":"sri-lankas-easter-sunday-bombings-one-year-on-from-the-terror-that-took-my-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/websitedesigns.com.au\/elankanew\/sri-lankas-easter-sunday-bombings-one-year-on-from-the-terror-that-took-my-family\/","title":{"rendered":"Sri Lanka\u2019s Easter Sunday bombings: one year on from the terror that took my family"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Sri Lanka\u2019s Easter Sunday bombings: one year on from the terror that took my family<\/span><\/h1>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-43543 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/websitedesigns.com.au\/elankanew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Easter-Sunday-bombings-600x337.jpg\" alt=\"Easter Sunday bombings\" width=\"600\" height=\"337\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 24px; color: #000000;\">Source:<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 24px; color: #ff0000;\"><a style=\"color: #ff0000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.thetimes.co.uk\/article\/sri-lankas-easter-sunday-bombings-one-year-on-from-the-terror-that-took-my-family-pp3kqwjbt?shareToken=655ac2a1f70d93851cd094f4a60a55e2\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 24px;\">The Times UL<\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 24px; color: #000080;\"><i>Ben Nicholson, whose wife and children were killed in last year\u2019s attacks, tells Shanti Das how he is coping with the ultimate loss<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">Ben Nicholson was ordering pancakes from the breakfast buffet when the bomb killed his family. \u201cA year ago today I had a wife and two children,\u201d he says. \u201cAnita and I had a life planned out together and we were watching our two children grow up, and enjoying it, and enjoying what we were doing. That all just stopped.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">It was about 8.45am on April 21 last year \u2014 Easter Sunday \u2014 and he, Anita, 42, Alex, 14, and Annabel, 11, had enjoyed an \u201camazing\u201d week-long holiday in Sri Lanka, seeing elephants and blue whales and messing around in the hotel pool.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">They had packed their cases ready to go home and wandered around the capital, Colombo, sweeping the gift shops for souvenirs. Now they\u00a0sat in the second-floor restaurant of the Shangri-La hotel, feasting on local dishes and pastries before their flight home. Their transfer to the airport was booked for 9.30am.<\/span><!--more--><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">\u201cWe were sitting at a table by the window that the kids had picked and we weren\u2019t far from done,\u201d Ben recalls. \u201cEveryone had eaten loads, and we were just chit-chatting about going home. I didn\u2019t need any more food, but the food was great and I just decided I wanted something else, so I got up and left the table. There were some Sri Lankan flatbread-pancake-type things being cooked, so I was chatting with the guy who was making them about what they were.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">Ben was standing a few feet away from a suicide bomber. As the pancake-maker dropped the batter on the hot plate, the bomb went off. A second blast followed moments later. \u201cThat decision, to get some pancakes, was the difference between all four of us going at once and me surviving,\u201d he says. \u201cHow do you rationalise that?<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">Ben, an insurance lawyer from Grays in Essex, was knocked sideways by the explosion and fell to the floor. A concrete pillar shielded him from the worst of the impact. A photograph of him with a haunted expression and his T-shirt soaked red with blood would be printed in newspapers and flashed on TV screens. \u201cReally it was just scratches,\u201d he says. \u201cAt one point they did sit me down and take a few bits of glass out of my midriff. But it was very incongruous; there was virtually nothing wrong with me.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-43544 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/websitedesigns.com.au\/elankanew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Annabel-\u2018doted\u2019-on-big-brother-Alex.jpg\" alt=\"Annabel \u2018doted\u2019 on big brother Alex\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">Annabel \u2018doted\u2019 on big brother Alex<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">There had been no concrete pillar to protect his family. \u201cThe dust settled fairly quickly and it was a bright day,\u201d Ben says. He saw Anita and Annabel straight away, but Alex was not there. \u201cI knew Anita and Annabel were gone. I knew it as soon as I saw them. But nonetheless we took them out and moved them outside and put them in an ambulance.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">Ben spent the next seven hours looking for Alex, checking evacuation centres and hospitals. It was only as he was going ward to ward that he saw the newsflash on the TV screens and realised the explosion was part of a co-ordinated terrorist attack. In all, 259 people were killed in churches and hotels across Sri Lanka.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">Before seeing the news, he had thought it was a gas explosion. \u201cI was just confused. It didn\u2019t remotely occur to me that it might be a bombing. I was in a massive state of shock and my mind was obsessively focused on Alex. I was thinking, \u2018Maybe he went to get a drink and took himself away from the situation by some chance,\u2019 and he\u2019s just been evacuated somewhere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">\u201cAnd then I had to think about, \u2018If I do find him, what state is he going to be in?\u2019 It definitely crossed my mind a lot of times. And, \u2018If he is alive, how am I going to tell him about his mum and his sister?\u2019\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-43545 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/websitedesigns.com.au\/elankanew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/The-bomb-destroyed-600x400.jpg\" alt=\"The bomb destroyed \" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<div class=\"css-901oao r-1khp51w r-j2s0nr r-n6v787 r-5fcqz0\" dir=\"auto\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">The bomb destroyed the second-floor restaurant at the Shangri-La hotel in Colombo<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n<div class=\"css-901oao r-1khnkhu r-j2s0nr r-qqjak8 r-16dba41 r-ud0q2t r-5fcqz0\" dir=\"auto\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">CHAMILA KARUNARATHNE<\/span><\/strong><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">He found Alex at 4pm, after being \u201cgently persuaded\u201d to check the mortuary. Like his mother and sister, Alex is believed to have died instantly in the blast. \u201cThe reason I couldn\u2019t find him at the hospital was that he didn\u2019t go to hospital.\u201d Ben remembers lots of paperwork that night. He went before a makeshift magistrates\u2019 court to have Anita, Alex and Annabel\u2019s bodies signed into his custody. \u201cEach time they would give me a form, I\u2019d need to say, \u2018Well, no, I need three.\u2019\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">One year on, his eyes fill with tears as he tells his story for the first time. Speaking by video call from his home in Singapore, where he, Anita and the children emigrated in 2011, he says the tragedy is \u201cstill incredibly new and raw\u201d, but that he is, somehow, coping.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">\u201cPeople say they don\u2019t know how they\u2019d cope, but I would\u2019ve said all that as well if you\u2019d asked me the day before. When you\u2019re facing it, I suppose you\u2019ve got to find a way of dealing with it.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-43546 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/websitedesigns.com.au\/elankanew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Alex-and-Annabel-on-the-day-before-they-died.jpg\" alt=\"Alex and Annabel on the day before they died\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #000000;\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">Alex and Annabel on the day before they died<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">The 44-year-old, a partner at the law firm Kennedys, says he feels \u201cincredibly lucky\u201d to have shared such a joyous two decades with Anita, whom he met at sixth-form college and fell in love with after university. They bought their first house together, renovated it, supported each other through their early careers and shared in the joy of becoming parents. The couple would have celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary this summer. He describes Anita, who worked most recently as in-house counsel for Anglo American, a mining company, and was previously a legal adviser to the Treasury, as \u201cextremely kind and loving. She was completely devoted to the family, but equally there\u2019s no doubt she had an absolutely ferocious intellect as well,\u201d he says. \u201cShe was wonderful.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">\u201cI had 22 amazing years with Anita. People spend their whole lives trying to get what we had. You have to be happy about that, to have had that time. But, equally, there are moments you just look at it and think, we had everything and we lost it all.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">Their daughter, Annabel, was the joker in the pack, the \u201cyounger, funny sister, bouncing around and being mischievous\u201d. Alex could also be a \u201ccheeky chappie\u201d. \u201cHis teachers all said to me that he\u2019d often go past the line but then he\u2019d always be able to charm you with his big smile.\u201d Alex also adopted the role of caring big brother. Annabel \u201cdoted\u201d on him, Ben says. \u201cShe knew she always had him to rely on.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-43547 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/websitedesigns.com.au\/elankanew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Ben-and-Anita-in-2004-320x400.jpg\" alt=\"Ben and Anita in 2004\" width=\"320\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\"><strong>Ben and Anita in 2004<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">He thinks about them all the time. \u201cThe whole world around you is just going on and you see other things happening and you just think of yourself in that situation,\u201d he says. \u201cThere are prompts everywhere; there\u2019s nothing to stop you thinking about them. Not that I want to stop.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">\u201cAt the beginning, you wake up every morning and you\u2019re in that phase where you\u2019ve forgotten, and then you remember what has happened all over again. That is hard. But I think that maybe because I drive myself quite hard, I just get up and go.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">He returned to work shortly after the attack to give him back a \u201csense of normality\u201d, and still coaches at Tanglin Rugby Club, where Alex and Annabel played and Anita volunteered. However, he could not bear to return to the old family home, and has moved to a new apartment. He finds comfort in the photographs that adorn the walls alongside art he and Anita chose together. He is having counselling and has thrown himself into sport and charity work.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-43548 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/websitedesigns.com.au\/elankanew\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/Alex-3-and-Annabel-18-months-600x400.jpg\" alt=\"Alex, 3 and Annabel, 18 months\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\"><strong>Alex, 3 and Annabel, 18 months<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">A few weeks after the attack, he set up the Anita, Alex and Annabel Nicholson Memorial Fund, which has raised almost half a million pounds. Last month, he was part of a team that circumnavigated Singapore in an outrigger boat, a challenge that took 17 hours and raised more than \u00a3100,000. He plans to use the money to \u201ccreate a legacy\u201d for Anita, Alex and Annabel. One project is the launch of a scheme to support disadvantaged children in Sri Lanka through rugby.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">In December, he went back to Sri Lanka for the first time to meet organisations he hopes the charity can go into partnership with. While there, he returned to the Shangri-La hotel to visit a memorial garden opened for the victims, and stood in the restaurant that was destroyed in the attack.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">\u201cIt\u2019s hard to put my finger on exactly what it was but there was definitely a feeling that I wanted to go back and be there. It was surreal, inevitably. But it felt like that was the right thing to do. It did feel, somehow, that they were part of the place.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">He says he does not hold any anger towards those responsible for the attack. \u201cI don\u2019t think about [the bombers]. I just literally don\u2019t think about them. I just give them nothing.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\">And he does not regret taking his family to Sri Lanka. \u201cYou can\u2019t regret going because it\u2019s part of our lives and what we were,\u201d he says. \u201cWe were just ridiculously unlucky.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"responsiveweb__Paragraph-sc-1isfdlb-0 YieBL\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #000000;\"><i>Support to the Anita, Alex and Annabel Nicholson Memorial Fund here:\u00a0<a class=\"linkweb__RespLink-yfb9n-0 brTsSA\" style=\"color: #000000;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.atlasfrc.org\/appeal\/anita-alex-annabel-nicholson-memorial-fund\">atlasfrc.org<\/a><\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sri Lanka\u2019s Easter Sunday bombings: one year on from the terror that took my family Source:The Times UL Ben 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